According to the text, proxemics is the study of how we use space to communicate. This is an important aspect of communication and one we must be aware of as proximity is interpreted differently throughout certain cultures. For example, one culture may interpret close proximity as positive indication, while it may cause someone of another culture to feel uncomfortable, which is why we need to be aware of the different cultural, personal, and role-related expectations and interpretations surrounding proxemics.
Chronemics on the other hand, is the study of the use of time. Time is seen as an organizing principle in the work world, especially in western culture where time is money. This means it is important to respect the time of your fellow group members and be aware of their expectations. I had an incident with a group from another class in which all five members were supposed to meet at the library to work on our group project. Once I arrived, I was surprised to see only myself and one other group member had shown up. I saw this as inconsiderate as I had no classes that day but drove to campus anyway, whereas the members who did not show gave the impression that they simply had better things to do with their time.
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ReplyDeleteHey Daisy,
ReplyDeleteI was shocked to read that the group you were apart of blew off the library meeting. This is a prime example for individuals with poor chronemic skills and respect. I know sometimes life gets in the way but that is why we have communication, to inform and relate to one another especially in a group setting. I have many friends with poor time management skills and constantly keep the other group members waiting. I can't help to align chronemics with respect. And I feel the same way with proxemics. I don't like invading other peoples space and I don't appreciate mine being invaded either. I have many people in my life I am close with and where space doesn't seem to matter. But I have a huge issue with people I do not know touching me or residing way to close to me. I don't know why but it makes me feel uneasy and unfocused. I understand not every culture feels this way and I do my best to accommodate that.
Thanks for the post and personal examples! Awesome job!